Simplicity is a word God has been whispering to me for several years. I heard it first as a call to declutter and downsize but failed to sense its ongoing purpose for my life as a harbinger of rest and peace. Now it’s to become my defining word for 2023.
I yearn for simplicity. Maybe you do, too? Sadly, good intentions can fall by the wayside when we’re blindsided by the tribulations and trials of life.
We did manage to clear a significant amount of extraneous stuff before we moved house just over 18 months ago, which was a big help, but our bungalow has gradually become pretty full since then.

And our shed is bursting at the seams with sentimental paraphernalia and paperwork to sift and sort through, and lots of items to donate or throw away once we can get round to it.
Yet a “round tuit” is in short supply, it seems. Perhaps what is lacking is consistent motivation and sufficient energy and strength to make much progress. And that’s just with the visible mountain needing to be scaled.
Because I’m also aware of the heavy soul baggage I’ve been carrying around for years and which needs to be addressed. God is slowly, slowly helping me unearth, unravel and understand just what to deal with and when.

I’m seeking/needing to take the gentle path because it’s all that I am capable of. My mind and body are apt to protest at haste. It might be that my previous thoughts about simplicity have altered over the intervening months. I’m open to finding out.
What will that look like in this space? A space I’ve unintentionally left vacant for months despite my desire to return and blog more frequently, but getting stalled by worsening health problems, SAD, sheer weariness, and a family bereavement.
Perhaps, as Joseph Campbell says, “We must let go of the life we have planned, so as to accept the one that is waiting for us.” and reach a place of acceptance before we can achieve soul simplicity and contentment.
When tides aren’t favourable we have to accept that we’re going to be beached for a bit, like bare branches waiting for buds in spring, unable to do more than the essential, even though we long to bloom again.

As we inch into 2023, simplicity for me looks like going with the flow but not stressing if it simply isn’t there at all. It might mean writing shorter posts (do I hear you cheering?) sporadically until my health improves.
It suggests I listen more closely to the holy whispers that guide my steps, lean most into what suits me best for whatever season I might be in, receive grace, and learn to give it to myself while I’m in a set aside, waiting place.
Together we can listen, lean, receive, and learn how to simplify our souls, our homes, our lives, one small step at a time.
Feel free to chip in, my friend, and share how you’re situated right now so I can pray for you. I’ve so missed the conversations we used to have. Xx 😊💜

My dear Joy, you spoke volumes to my journey as well as to yours. My own writing has been sporadic and my own heaviness (SAD, exhaustion, lingering long-COVID symptoms…) has been ver much present. Thank you for your wonderful words and for your prayers. Blessings on your journey 💜💜
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Dear Michael, although I am sad to hear you’ve been struggling similarly, I’m grateful you can connect with the thoughts here and understand how it feels. Life has a way of either overwhelming us with busyness or sidelining us for seasons or short periods of time.
Our hard task is to seek equilibrium, rest and peace however we might be situated. May you rest in your beloved state before God and your preciousness to all who know and love you, because you are more than enough just as you are. Blessings on your journey, too, my friend, and prayers for rest and strengthening. 💜🙏🏻
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Thank you, Joy 💜💜
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Hi Joy! Those family bereavements add so much extra weight to the already existing struggles, don’t they? May God give you strength and peace for each day. Do allow yourself grace, my friend. This post speaks my heart. I am learning to just allow myself to relax and not rush, to quit putting pressure on myself and just seek the beauty in each day. I’m a work in progress… It’s hard to rid myself of that guilty feeling for not doing more or reaching out more. I join you in the journey to “listen, lean, receive, and learn how to simplify our souls, our homes, our lives, one small step at a time.” Blessings, love, and hugs to you!
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Hi Trudy, you are a compassionate ray of light who never fails to shine out hope to others. I’m so thankful for your kindness, blessing and prayers. And oh, how I understand that pressure we put on ourselves to do more or to be more. Seeking the beauty in each day is a really helpful way to stir us to gratitude and ignite a more positive attitude. Sometimes I forget that despite writing books which try to encourage others in that pursuit! 😉
So I’m very much a work in progress as well.
Wise man that he is, this afternoon my husband had to remind me to rest rather than dwell on all the tasks I lacked the energy to do. I can see I need to inscribe the “listen, lean, receive, and learn… etc” mantra in my mind and heart until I can actually live it out. Maybe we could check in with and remind one another as we go through the months ahead? Blessings, love and hugs to you, too! x ❤️
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Dear Joy,
Thank you for these beautiful words and photos. You’ve offered such cheer and encouragement here. And I must say I’m a work in progress too. Just when I think I’ve finally found the way of rest and release, then God uncovers more in me that is definitely not restful. So I join you in this path with the Lord as He uncovers more of His rest and simplicity. Blessings and love dear friend.
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Dear Bettie, I’m so pleased the images and text have spoken to you. I’m grateful you have found cheer and encouragement here, too. Welcome to the work in progress club! What you say about thinking you’ve finally got a handle on rest and release yet God “uncovers more of me that is definitely not restful” definitely chimes with my own experience.
It seems simple in theory, doesn’t it? But we’re complicated mortals who have much to learn as we advance on our spiritual journey. They can be tough but essential lessons which keep us walking close to God in deeper dependency and trust. I’m always happy to have your sweet companionship, my dear friend. Sending prayers, blessings, love and hugs! x 💜
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Thanks Joy for reminding me that I can de clutter my house (and my life) in small bursts when less pain and more energy allow. And also for the need to accept me as I am and not hanker after the me I used to be before overtaken by chronic pain and health issues. I have just finished reading your beautiful poetry book ‘Sacred noticing’ which I have been savouring (again) over the past few months and am so sad it has come to an end though I love the final poem in the book and will look at it over and over for a while as it resonates so much with me at present. You have a wonderful way with words. Take care dear friend in Christ. May God richly bless you as you bless so many of us.
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Dear Carol, it’s hard to sit on the sidelines of life sometimes when chronic illness stops us in our stride. Learning to rest and pace is far from easy but it becomes a process we gradually accept as a necessity. Likewise, most decluttering advice assumes a level of physical energy, freedom from pain, stamina and strength we do not possess. Small, slow steps are called for, and plenty of grace for those days when we can do nothing much at all. Maybe we should write our own decluttering guide?! 😉
Thank you for sharing how ‘Sacred Noticing’ has been a blessing to you. I’m so pleased it’s spoken to you. If you’re feeling sad at coming to the end of it, perhaps you might like to try reading ‘Embracing Hope’ next? Just a thought… Your lovely encouragement has lifted me and made my day brighter. Sending grateful hugs, blessings and prayers to you, dear friend. x 💜
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JOY:
My back spine has brought unimaginable pain. I so enjoy your words of inspiration. I hurt if I get out of bed, spend hours humped over the computer. Doig anything brings pain. I feel so useless. I am playing now for God to take care of you.
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Joy, I’m liking the fact you’ve enjoyed this post and felt able to share something of your own physical health problems. Thank you for your honesty. But I’m so sorry you suffer as much as you do. My heart goes out to you. I can definitely relate to being in constant pain. It’s hard to ignore or push past it.
I hope you have adequate analgesia to take the edge off the pain and give you some relief. If you’d like to hear from me privately, please leave a message on my Contact page here. I might not be able to answer swiftly but I will read and reply as soon as I can. You are also in my thoughts and prayers. Take care, my friend. x 🕊🌷🙏🏻
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