Dear Reader and Friend, you may have noticed I’m slow to post fresh content. It’s due to a prolonged season battling a health relapse which I’m still struggling with.
I can’t predict when I might return because when you live in the Slow Lane of chronic illness it’s hard to judge what you can manage on any given day.
Months of excessive fatigue, brain fog, weakness, and increased pain make stumbling out of bed and getting dressed a great achievement, never mind thinking straight or writing anything.
However, God has been using this period to teach me the value of deeper surrender and rest, alongside endurance, patience, and l…o…n…g…s…u…f…f…e…r…i…n…g.

These attributes are beneficial for my soul even if it protests somewhat during the learning process. I also sense a nudge to return to the restful practice of centering prayer to help me stay calm.
God recently graced me with a small creative spark to pen a couple of poems. I’ve also forayed into fiction and composed a sombre short story about grief. Let me know if you’d like to read it… 😉✍️
I’m rejoicing that I’m here NOW, after slowly piecing words together over a few weeks. It gives me hope for more to come. There is always hope for us when we trust in God.
We have hope of healing. Hope of better rest and recovery. Hope of dormant creativity reawakening. Hope of learning and growing spiritually as we rest and recover our equilibrium and strength.

5 hidden blessings of life in the Slow Lane of chronic illness
God uses our enforced downtime to help us slow, rest, recover, listen to His voice, seek His face, and get into better alignment with His thoughts and plans.
Our priorities shift into sharper focus when circumstances throw us off balance and pull us away from the life we had before.
Nature speaks volumes to us and encourages our hearts, even if we’re simply viewing the changing landscape out of our bedroom window.
We begin to appreciate the small, the seemingly insignificant things, moments and events, and treasure them more than before.
Our hearts open up to a deeper awareness of God’s presence with us as we lean harder on Him for our daily needs.

5 extra hidden blessings
We learn to expect so much less from our lives and from ourselves. The burden lifts because we just can’t manage anything extra.
We place greater value on our family, friends and loved ones because any time with them is precious and we’re grateful for their help and support.
Simplicity and reflection become the hallmark of our days. We discover that an observed life is one that’s really worth living.
Doing less and taking time to rest and reflect can lead to greater awareness and thankfulness.
Our lives are based less on achievement and more on discerning what we are capable of this day, this hour, this moment.
PS: One way to encourage ourselves to rest is to use a screensaver reminder on our phones, like this one from a selection found here.

If you value quiet or soothing silence, these 19 suggestions are useful. Or if you need to be still before God and rest in Him, the video below might help.
Thank you for sticking around this rather unreliable writer’s blog. It means a lot. Blessings and love, Joy Xx ❤️😘💜
Joy, what a treat to read your words! Yes, those hidden blessings mean so much. We do learn to depend on God more and to appreciate life every day. I love how He draws us closer whether we choose to rest or are forced to rest because of physical illnesses. He understands our pain and He comforts as we go to His Word, listen to uplifting music, spend time in nature, etc. Thank you for sharing these thoughts, dear Joy. “Be Still, My Soul” is one of my favorite hymns. Love, hugs and blessings to you, dear sister! xoxo
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Also, I adore that sweet cat picture!
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Isn’t it cute?! I fell in love with it as well when looking for a suitable image to convey slowing down, weariness, a need for rest, and the restful stillness of trusting in God. It came from pixabay.com. x 😉🐈💜
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Gayl, it’s good to have something to share! I love how you have elaborated on the hidden blessings to be found in the difficult and pain-filled seasons of our lives where our hope can struggle to survive. There is a rich variety of ways in which we can sense God speaking to us and bringing comfort to our hearts. I’m so glad I chose one of your favourite hymns and I’m grateful you’ve left a lovely, encouraging comment. Thank you! Love, hugs and blessings to you, too, dear sister and supportive friend! xoxo ❤️
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Oh Joy, I’m so glad to read your uplifting thoughts today! Please know that you are not forgotten here, as your words are deeply missed. But I truly can understand dear friend! These words especially resonated with me: “We begin to appreciate the small, the seemingly insignificant things, moments and events, and treasure them more than before.” In my slow time, I am looking for those moments of His glory breaking through also. Blessings, love, and prayers for you my friend! 🌷♥️🤗
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Dear Bettie, your generous, kind and thoughtful response warms my heart. There’s definitely a tendency to feel sidelined, forgotten about and lost when we’re in a season of struggle and have to pull back from online or real life engagement because there is always a cost. A greater surrender. A harder tug on our hearts. You and I know these feelings all too well. It takes grit and courage to draw back from busyness even if it’s in our best interests. May God meet mightily with you in your slow time. May He strengthen and revive you in body, soul, and mind. May God heal and restore you in every area where you need His loving touch. Much love, blessings and prayers for you across the pond, dear friend. xoxo 💜🕊🙏🏻
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I love all these hidden blessings in the slow lane, Joy. I find myself more and more needing to lean hard into our Rock of Strength who knows our every need and to seek out His beauty everywhere. Listening again to the song was also good for my soul. Thank you! Love and blessings of grace and strength for each day!
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Trudy, it’s so reassuring when we remind ourselves that God “knows our every need” and encourages us to “seek out His beauty everywhere.” After being in a prolonged season of slow, where discouragement was ever-present, it’s taken a while for me to seek out these hidden blessings I’d somehow overlooked for months. But I’m so grateful my eyes have been opened so I could share them with others. Listening to this song helped me as well and I’m glad it’s been good for your soul. Love and hugs and blessings of grace and strength to you, too, dear friend! Xx ❤️
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