Dear Readers and Friends,
You can be forgiven for thinking I’ve vacated this blog, left it hanging untouched in cyberspace because I’ve not written here for a couple of months, but that’s not the case.
Because of my daily battle with chronic illness and the difficulties of life with M.E, I’ve had to reconcile myself to posting here infrequently. It’s not what I desire but it’s the best I can manage. Thank you for your understanding and grace.
Today I am happy to be able to share what is probably the l-o-n-g-e-s-t poem I have ever written. It’s about the inner conflict we have when our mind says go and our body says slow. A familiar pattern for me and many others.
I toyed with breaking the poem into paragraphs but felt it might lose its flow, so I’ve left it alone. I hope you can identify with the thoughts, especially if you have similar difficulties or need a reminder to rest because it’s vital for our bodies and souls.

Today when I could do nothing… I felt bereft. Few words entered my head. I felt the weight of wanting, the ache of the ordinary spreading out before me. Time hung heavy, caught as I was between a desire to do and a desire to pause. No ticking clock, only my own meandering thoughts acting like a metronome urging me on. But I couldn’t respond because my body wouldn’t cooperate and my brain was sluggish, slow, fogged up and stupefied. So I began to give myself grace, loosen the loop of busyness. I saw how being unproductive might feel like laziness yet was all I felt capable of. Maybe this is a season where I could learn not to contradict the sense of being more suited to somnolence. Perhaps this is a day to just go with the flow, let my uptight soul become willingly untethered to tasks. So I ease myself into a groove of rest, a period to pause, a time to still and not count my worthiness based on what I might achieve, what I can or cannot do. Although being inactive feels like a waste sometimes even if it represents a large part of my life. Physical illness and weakness do not fit me well for being active. Instead, they suggest a slower pace is not only doable but desirable. Letting my brain be silenced could mean more listening to my heart which speaks its own nurturing thoughts. It says: 'Rest, relax, chill out, nobody is judging you by what you do or do not do. Nobody is keeping score to see how many times you stop to pause, to rest, to read or yawn. There are no observers here now, watching how you shape your words. only your own inner critic who never ceases to chip in. Tell her to go away because you’re not listening to her today, you are listening to your heart.' So I adjust, mentally, at least, tune into the idea of my soul’s release to this. May I be like a wave breaking on the shoreline, rolling over and slowing, until all you see is the lacey rivulets circling your feet. A delicate spread of pale latte nothingness. No pushing. No tug. Just a soft slithering over sand and crawling back again. All the while absorbing sun’s warmth like a gentle benediction of love, aided by the wind’s soft kiss. © joylenton

My absence here has also been caused by being extra busy writing a new book! It’s called Sacred Noticing: Seasonal Glimpses of the Infinite. UK readers can check it out on Amazon by clicking on the link above. US and European readers can click on the image to the left. Blessings and love. Xx 😉💜
Congratulations on your new book, dear Joy! And certainly you need a deep, long resting time after the energy required for that! I so appreciate the words you shared here, today. It does feel like we “should” have more to give, doesn’t it? Oh but what a gracious Lord we have. He knows how frail these bodies of ours truly are, and He wants to bless us with these times of rest. I pray that we both woul put aside the “shoulds” and receive His peace for us right here. Thank you dear sister for sharing. Blessings of rest and love for you today! ❤
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Thank you, dear Bettie! It certainly felt like a marathon by the end of the process, making rest and recovery a necessity more than a choice!
I’ve lived too much of my life listening to those should or ought to messages from my inner critic, but I’m getting better at silencing her and listening to my body and heart instead.
Yes, our gracious God calls us into rest because He knows it’s inadvisable for us to press on until we drop with fatigue and take longer to feel able to get on with things again.
I’m grateful for your beautiful blessing and prayer and pray the same for you, dear friend. What a gift it is to “receive His peace for us right here” in our place of weakness! Love and hugs. xo ❤️
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Oh yes, Joy. I identify with this. I think we both struggle to put our inner critics away, don’t we? I love the picture you paint with the last words of your poem. This flows over my heart like a soothing balm –
“No pushing. No tug. Just a soft
slithering over sand and crawling
back again. All the while absorbing
sun’s warmth like a gentle benediction
of love, aided by the wind’s soft kiss.”
Thank you!
Love and blessings of peace within your soul!
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Trudy, it’s good to know we not only share the propensity for struggling to “put our inner critic away” but realise the necessity to do just that for our soul’s and sanity’s sake.
I’m so pleased those lines spoke to you and felt like a soothing balm. They affected me in the same way when I reread the poem, and acted like a permission slip to enter into rest. Sending love, hugs, and blessings of peace to you, too! x 💜
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I am reading your blog this evening as we begin a week long class/retreat on Silence and Contemplation at the seminary where we began our Certificate in Christian Spiritual Formation, Columbia Presbyterian Theological Seminary. Our lives have been upside down between my resigning from the church in January, helping Denise with her dad’s estate/property and now preparing to move to Orange Beach, Alabama where I will begin a year-long contract as an Interim minister at Swift Presbyterian Church in Foley. My writing has been sparse to non-existent for some time now… thank you for this permission giving gift and congratulations on your new book 💖💖
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You’re welcome, Michael! I’m glad its a timely read for you. Oh my, you are extra busy with lots of great life-changing activities! What a year you’ve had. Moving is stressful enough without additional alterations to our lives. Sometimes God calls us to focus our attention, energy and strength elsewhere, or he simply wants us to rest. Thank you for sharing how you are situated. I’m praying for you to be given pockets of rest in-between the busyness, and abundant blessings for the next exciting chapter in your lives. 😊❤️🙏🏻
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